Holiday gatherings can be a tricky mix of joy, tradition, and unsolicited wedding advice. By going in as a united front with your partner, setting clear boundaries, and redirecting conversations with intention, you can keep family opinions from overwhelming your planning process. Better yet, you can turn this time into something helpful — gathering addresses, collecting stories, or delegating small tasks that make relatives feel included without derailing your vision. At the end of the day, your wedding is about the two of you, and the holidays can be a chance to strengthen that vision rather than lose it.